We often talk about "loving our neighbor" as a beautiful, abstract concept—but what happens when that neighbor is the spouse who let you down, the friend who betrayed your trust, or the church member who hides a "sketchy" past behind a public mask? In this sermon, we dive into the uncomfortable reality that those closest to us are often the hardest to love because we have a front-row seat to their failures. By looking at the chilling double lives of historical figures like Jimmy Savile and "Dr. Satan," we explore the "mental ledgers" we keep for those in our own lives. Discover why biblical love isn’t a feeling of affection, but a radical decision to seek the highest good of others—even when we know exactly why they don’t deserve it. It’s time to stop keeping score and start learning how to love beyond what we know.